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SOCIAL STIGMA (WOMEN) !!! 
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Disagree with most of the points

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Relationship cannot be rebuilt with conditions written on paper, so called as MOU
MOU is MOU, there are no Strong or Strongest MOU and weak or weakest MOU

Members/Guys grow up, there is a huge difference REEL and REAL

Guys do not get carried away....be practical in your decision and not emotional.
Many people will misguide you....SUNO SABKI, KARO APNI MANN KI
Do not try to save your marriage for the sake of society

kids or no kids, never take a 498a women back.

Go thru this link more than 100 or 1000 times and read it in full

http://498amisuse.wordpress.com/category/ipc-498a/ipc-498a-faq/

Below content part is pasted from above link

wife filed a 498A against me and now she is apologizing and wants to me to take her back and she is willing to withdraw the 498A. What should I do? Is it advisable to take her back? What are the Pros & Cons of taking her back?

* Advice: We don’t advice on what you have to do. It is entirely upto to you to decide. Please understand the Pros & Cons mentioned below FYI:
* Cons: Before understanding the Pros first look at the disadvantages:
o 1. There is no guarantee that she will not put a fresh 498A again on you. The 2nd time FIR is even more dangerous. The police & courts will be more severe to you this time as they will be of the view that you have been pardoned once and you again harassed her, even though the truth is something else.
o 2. If first time a false case can be registered and withdrawn there is nothing stopping her to put another false case. Getting bail second time is very difficult as courts think that you have been pardoned once and you again harassed her.
o 3. Even if she doesn’t register the case 2nd time, you will be living under the apprehension that she might put the case again any time. You will be living a tension full life 24/7 365 days a year.
o 4. You will have to desert your parents, your siblings & your relatives as they will be afraid of your wife that she might register the case again on them also.
o 5. You will have to surrender all your salary, savings, properties otherwise you might end up facing the case again.
o 6. You will have to surrender yourself to her and her parents & her siblings and live like their slave otherwise you might end up facing the case again.
o 7. You will have to surrender yourself to her boy friends and give them free entry into your house & matrimonial life and obey their wishes and fulfill their fantasies and become their slave. If you deny you might end up facing the case again.
o 8. You will have to obey her diktat. If you deny you might end up facing the case again.

* Pros: Considering the kind of probabilities that might happen as listed under the Cons section above, we feel that there are NO advantages of taking her back unless you are ready to accept all her wishes/fantasies as listed above and live like a dead man
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It is better to be violent, if there is violence in our hearts, than to put on the cloak of nonviolence to cover impotence.

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“In theory, theory and practice are the same. In practice, they are not.”

http://498afaq.blogspot.in/
http://www.498a.org/contents/general/Ne ... elines.pdf

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Tue Oct 14, 2014 4:49 pm
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a fool & his women are soon separated


Wed Nov 05, 2014 10:27 am
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It's the other way around.....

A foolish women gets separated from her wise husband by filing 498a and other cases for petty reasons.

A wise man will make sure he will not be a slave for rest of his life

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“In theory, theory and practice are the same. In practice, they are not.”

http://498afaq.blogspot.in/
http://www.498a.org/contents/general/Ne ... elines.pdf

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Thu Nov 06, 2014 3:40 am
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if a wife want to take revenge from FIL and husband only option to file false 498a and try to take sympathy from world.

But one day truth will comes ahead.


Thu Nov 06, 2014 6:29 am
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chatur.bhai wrote:
a fool & his women are soon separated


Talk sense to a fool.. and he/she calls you foolish

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“In theory, theory and practice are the same. In practice, they are not.”

http://498afaq.blogspot.in/
http://www.498a.org/contents/general/Ne ... elines.pdf

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Tue Nov 11, 2014 8:47 am
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Moderators : please delete these threads, as the person in question has used this forum as a storage device and useless spamming and he is referring these pages to run his shop of "Paid advice" to the 498a victims.

Its totally against the values and principles of this forum as it should not be used for commercial gains.

http://pip-movement-social-stigma.wikia.com/wiki/User_blog:Aturchatur/PIP_movement_by_Atur_Chatur

http://aturchatur99.blogspot.co.uk/2014/10/perjury-against-wife.html

he apparently chose this forum as a storage device for his useless ideas and project himself and he targeted the victims here to make a client base for him.

what a shameless guy.

Please delete all posts by him as those posts are being used outside for commercial gains.


Tue Nov 11, 2014 10:14 am
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I agree.
Delete & lock these posts


Tue Nov 11, 2014 5:07 pm
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I Agree with Galsober...This thread is a useless piece of junk...Mods plz Lock and fire this thread...

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Tue Nov 11, 2014 5:45 pm
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I reckon with gal bhai....

Not only this thread but the three.....
SOCIAL STIGMA (Lawyers & Commission Agents) !!!
SOCIAL STIGMA (WOMEN) !!!
SOCIAL STIGMA !!!

http://www.498a.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=41&t=14065&start=100#p93575
http://www.498a.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=41&t=13225
http://www.498a.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=41&t=14273

NOTE:
http://www.498a.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=41&t=14273#p97178

Is "chatur.bhai" = "aturchatur" ?

Mods/Admin kindly look into these posts and do the needful, before this shit hits the fan once again.

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“In theory, theory and practice are the same. In practice, they are not.”

http://498afaq.blogspot.in/
http://www.498a.org/contents/general/Ne ... elines.pdf

Good Luck


Wed Nov 12, 2014 10:27 am
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This is all my personal feelings........... I think this all situation starts when our social system starts treating the girl child as dependent and a burden......even the girl starts to think herself a burden to be born by her parents or husband...... even the system also thinks her as burden......this makes everyone to think that somebody should take that burden........ they treat a girl like commodity........ even a girl poses herself a commodity traded with money........ who is having better price....take me.......please don't take any offence........ they try to sell their beauty with money.........even they start thinking if they are not beautiful they can't marry a rich man......or if they are very beautiful apparently, they should be married to a man having fat pockets ........ many of the people or parents will not acknowledge this thing...... still the parents of a girl child feel pity, i don't know why.... in sending their girl child out in the world...... they fear too much about their girl child in comparison to boy child.....they fear or most of time show-business the fear of their girl child being manhandled in society.............again thinking a girl as commodity......like manhandling a possession or commodity....... . this bullshit feeling is so much engraved in the mindset of our society that no one even tries to get out of it............... these feelings are somewhat changing in the society..... but still melodrama takes the control.......

now what to do.......hai hai.... a girl child is week.....a girl shows herself melodramatically weak...... now the system comes in picture...... save girls but not boys.......... boys are bullshit....... makes the gender separation........... without understanding a bit about nature and natural human instincts........ human instinct asks for full stomach, pleasure and comfort......when it comes without doing anything ........ pleasure is awesome........ let it come even if it comes at the cost of other persons let it be in any relation........... there is no difference in male or female...... whosoever will get a chance will exploit the other............

so now comes the real question........... are wives not greedy enough to exploit their husband.... or husbands not greedy enough to exploit their wives.......... their must be a semblance in satisfying the other's greed........... until when this greed remains itself in the limits of need or a bit more in tolerable limit of other...... relationship remains peaceful........ but when overdose of greed happens ..... its intolerable to the other...........

wives can be greedy....... and these biased laws give them opportunity to be greedy...... without doing anything..........
these laws should be amended immediately............. because the girls in need are not getting any benefit of it...........


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